How To Have Hot Phone Sex

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How To Have Hot Phone SexIt’s time to dust off the rust and enjoy a real throwback. Learn how to have hot phone sex in the digital age.

Sure, we’ve all sent our lovers some sexy snaps, naughty texts, and way more than just a flirty DM. But when’s the last time you had some good ol’ fashioned phone sex?

Don’t worry, it’s been awhile for us too. So we did what any person with a lust for knowledge and solid internet connection would do. We rang up phone sex company Indian Sex Talk, and got some pointers from their finest experts.

Phone sex: The long distance BDSM provider

“Quality phone sex is a lot like blindfolding your partner during sex” Kalia 32, explains. “They can’t see you, so you have to learn how to be really descriptive without being boring or obvious.”

Kalia suggests starting out with the ol’ “what are you wearing” nugget with a twist- slowly describing your own outfit, followed by a detailed description of where you are and what you want to do.

Phone sex: Can you hear me now?

“Listening to the cues that your partner gives you is key. Following their story line and embellishing it is a sure fire way to get you both feeling frisky.” Kalia says.

Phone sex can actually serve to strengthen a couples verbal communication. Listening to what your partner suggests, and learning how to receive it, and add to it, is a great way to improve intimate discussion without feeling scripted.

Phone sex: Innovation in imagination

“Just go with it. The only boundaries to phone sex are the comfort of yourself and your partner. Role play, confess your dirtiest secrets, and relive some of your favorite moments. Nothing is off limits”

This is a great way to innocently explore some of your more courageous sexual fantasies. Relax and let your imagination run wild while you focus on your partners voice.

Phone sex: Reach out and touch yourself

“Always make sure that you’re in a place where you’ve got some privacy. Or at minimum a decent headset.”

Kalia gushes that sometimes semi-public masturbation (close that office door), can be a real thrill, but it’s important to remember that you’re going to need your hands free access and not everyone wants to be on speaker. Make sure that you’ve got a private space and a hands-free device for maximum enjoyment.

Phone sex: Listen in

“Sometimes the hottest phone sex you can have is just sitting back and listening to your partner pleasure themselves.” Kalia reminds us.

Knowing that just your voice and your mind is enough to bring them to their knees is a great feeling. Phone sex is a great way to keep committed, long term relationships, spicy and fresh.

Phone sex: You’re a star, 69

“Flashbacks are a great way to start off an otherwise awkward conversation.”

Reminding your SO of that time that you 69’d in the hotel room on Valentine’s day is a great way to get both of you on the same page. Talking about previous acts that were enjoyable to you both can spark a conversation that you’re both comfortable with.

Phone sex: Dropped calls can be a good thing

Kalia says that giving up the goods doesn’t need to happen every time. “Keep your partner wanting more. If you feel like you’ve reach a high point in the conversation, don’t be afraid to hang up. Phone sex can be an excellent precursor to some really great sex”

Teasing your partner with a little sexy chat up will only stoke the fires of their desire. That yearning can make for some really steamy sex later, so don’t feel like you have to reach climax every time. Sometimes it’s best to just let the plot, and the sexual tension, thicken.

Phone sex: Switch providers

“If you can’t think of anything to say, don’t panic. Give the power to your partner. Saying things like ‘oh yeah’, ‘go on’, or ‘tell me what you’d like to do to me’, are all really sexy ways to keep the conversation flowing.” Kalia tells us.

It’s perfectly alright to get stuck or not know what to say. Should this happen, work on focusing on your partner’s fantasy. Ask them to pick up the story line. Having small, scripted moments, like “What do you want me to do?” are great ways to keep lulls in conversation from becoming drawn out and awkward pauses.

Phone sex: Don’t forget to wrap it up

“Just like regular sex, phone sex has its own sort of intimacy, so it’s always a good idea to make sure you schedule some wind down time. It gives each of you the chance to talk about what you enjoyed, or what you’d like to do next time”

Taking the time to enjoy your lusty little chat session is great. Getting the chance to talk about how sexy your conversation was, or how much you enjoyed certain parts of it can also help “dial in” your game for next time.

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4 thoughts on “How To Have Hot Phone Sex

  1. “Wow!
    Really a cool advice. How can I get long distance BDSM?
    Could you please answer my question?
    I am flirting way too hard with my girlfriend and I don’t know how do I pull back from my flirting without changing anything. “

  2. It was really an amazing feeling while reading this article and learning about how to have hot phone sex in the 21st Century. Now is the time to use skype and different video chat services with your girlfriend and any other sex worker.

  3. Nice guidelines about phone sex but basically, having phone sex is just masturbating with each other and talking about it. Because it keeps you turned on as the convo progresses.

  4. Great article, I think this might work even better for those who are shy and have difficulty creating an intimate relationship. The “phone/screen face call’ interaction takes off the pressure some guys like me feel, and it helps for us to come out of our shell.

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